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On Illness and Bravery

I randomly picked up my husband's most recent copy of Time magazine this morning to flip through while I was eating lunch. There was an excellent essay written by Josh Friedman, an American screenwriter, entitled, "It's OK To Be A Coward About Cancer." It grabbed my attention for several reasons: I am a 21 year cancer survivor, I currently spend every day battling an autoimmune illness, and I've been thinking a lot lately about what it means to be "brave" when struggling with an illness.

The essay starts off  with Mr. Friedman discussing Sen. John McCain's recent brain cancer diagnosis and the subsequent tweets from well meaning colleagues about how Sen. McCain should give his cancer "hell" as well as other encouragements to "fight." Mr. Friedman explains about how this "tough guy" narrative is "seductive" as it suggests we have control over our fates and that we can will cancer away. He continues on to explai…